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[father in need]

WOW, where do i begin. I am a father who has gone throught a divorce and our son went with me we are at a happy state in our lives now but still haunted with my ex and our son wants nothing to do with her. I will admit i stayed in the marriage longer than i should have thinking it was good for the children, well i found out it was a bad thing to do. we dont go to church but talk about it all the time yet still dont go had alot of bad experiences with it while growing up. Anyway, thank u for ur time, my problem is that i have a 16 year old son that is great i am so proud of him in every way but he is with this girl that is older by 3 years and is very minipulative like his mother. yet she has him wrapped around her little finger, my son never lies to me untill now he goes behind my back and takes the phone into the bathroom at 11pm which what was that woke me up ! she is going around cheating on him saying things about me and i cannot make it stop ! what ever she tells him HE BELIEVES. its nuts ! me and i have gotten his friends to talk to him about her and he doesnt do anything about it. I have tried to be nice to her and the more i was nice to her the more she was trying to get him to move out and come live with her, like WHAT?!?!?!? I cannot take it has there been anything like this that someone else can relate too? and yes i do believe therapy is a great idea, but he is practiceing to "BE" a therapyst..............HELP PLEASE